bismillah kami mulakan,
dgn kekuatan yang telah dikurniakan ALLAH swt..maka kami juga turut bermula, bernafas sebagai khalifah yang hidup di bumi Tuhan..meniti sebuah cerita, menulis sebuah kisah..berbicara mengenai cinta dan menikmati sebuah anugerah...
it has been a long silence i haven't been here. i didnt wrote not any a single entry because recently i'm being hindered of my cheesecake business and i did teach a boy to recite alquran..sometimes i cry because i just feeling exhausted for what i have done to survive..at the end of the day i do nothing on my thesis and the progress is still slow. u know what, i'm waiting for the grant approval, the scholarship application answer, but there aren't released yet. This caused me stress. but i do a blog-walking. heheh... ALLAH knows best. and i do believe in Him in whatever circumstances i feel.
Tomorrow, will be cik tam's flight on 9.50 am. since he was back in malaysia after the egypt riots, i've only seen him in 3 times. (hahah, kena kira). i was so busy in here, and i am not be able to say goodbye to him on this monday. but, i hope he has a safe journey tomorrow.
so, we will be million kilometer apart for several months or even a year, depends on egypt's situation and depends on his academic journey. May ALLAH bless..
p/s: gambar enal tunang..jangan jeles ye geng adik beradik ;)
huhu..i'm starting to get worry about my PMS symptoms. i just couldn't bear how hard it feels. cun-cun after siren was ringing on 6 o'clock, i went back home straight away. should have to go for medical check-up. (padahal,budaya balik kerja tepat pada masanya adalah bukan budaya kerja saya sebab sekarang ni memang banyak gila kerja)
ok,so, lepas balik rumah je terus lepak. tidur 6 jam terus.sbb teramat sakitnya my pelvis and servik.. itu yang terbangun. terkebil2 kebosanan. nak baca buku, dah bergelap. karang ganggu orang lain nak tido.
so, i read blogs. and i want to DIY veil...eheheheh...
and gubah bunga mungkin..dan ingin sekali menggubah hantaran.
wohooo...instead of cooking.
that's my interest..dari kecik lagi..i pernah ubah suai bunga telur and jual kat sekolah. huhuhu..i pernah buat jual buku,i lukis,buat cerita and jual kat kawan2. duit dh amik,buku tak siap. kikikiki...masa tu darjah 3...hehehe.yela,tak tau mende,lepas tu i pindah sekolah sini. habis lost contact..masa kecik2,i dok dgn atuk..the idea just popped out of my head..my atok tak tahu pon..so now, i want to track back my friend, i nak bayar hutang2 they all...huish..
then what? i lukis dinding bilik dengan water color. i buat mini library in my room. hahhaa.. i asked some friend to come to my house, we start cooking when my parents were not at home. lepas balik je parents,i kena marah, pinggan semua bersusun tak basuh. what i love most,i eager sangat nak masak sup dalam buku latihan grammar english. i follow step by step you! hahhaah..sup entah apa2 tapi masa tu rasa lazat gila sebab masak sendiri. darjah 4 pulak kan :)
then i selalu tertanya2 why my soup tak rasa sama dgn my mom's soup?
i know, some of you do not interested in reading articles regarding to marriage. ya,terserah.. perkara kecil bagi saya. tidak suka,tidak apa. anda tidak perlu membaca selanjutnya kisah yang ingin saya kongsikan dalam ruangan ini.
namun,untuk lelaki yang akan menjadi sebahagian hidup saya nanti, pesan saya cuma satu:
IBU ANDA LEBIH AULA(UTAMA) DARI ISTERI ANDA.
(meskipun saya tahu,dia tetap mengutamakan ibunya dalam segala hal)
begitu juga saya,perlu mengutamakan ibu sebelum saya dimiliki seorang lelaki dengan lafaz dan mahar. suatu penghargaan tertinggi buat seorang wanita dalam islam.
saya tidak pandai mengarang artikel bernas seperti layaknya artikel i luv islam.
jadi saya tinggalkan link laman sesawang ini kepada anda,
agar anda bahagia..bukan sahaja di dunia.malah di akhirat sana..
since i am 23,and i have been watching how good it was when my friend getting married. sangat bahagia. sangat suka.. *blink2 eyes*
insyaALLAH..soon you will..
walau kecewa bercinta sebelum ini pon, tapi ALLAH kan tahu apa yang terbaik.jodoh akan ada..cuma lambat atau cepat aje (keluar tajuk)
so, here it goes. i would like to share what have i watched on youtube (posted by someone in FB)
ACTUALLY,
i watched it because the title of video itself--DINOSAUR--
but at the end of the recording, i found something interesting about wedding!
yes, you know guys, wedding is my passion. because i love laces and ribbons. and yet, beneath of the laces and ribbons, it gives a thousand meaning of a sacred relationship. it holds two hearts in tight and that is exactly an everyone's dream.
but what i love most in this video,the ustaz shares the ideal time to held wedding reception.
(i could give u an example of my friend-ummi kalthum, she just had her solemnization in the morning, and kenduri right after they going back to home. no clothes changed. so simple,but so meaningful,kahwin jugak kan?)
i was smiling when i hear what's the point the ustaz wants to share.
ustaz: why not we held wedding reception at 9 am? don't disturb prayer time.
ok,let me tell you this. i've been thinking all these whiles how bride and groom could perform their solat? it will be a hectic day u know. A BIG DAY for them. I've been watching this situation (and the bride and groom sometimes just neglect prayer. Some of them. Not all of them)
Let say the majlis held on 12 noon. Brides have to make-up before the ceremony begins. gedebak gedebuk sanding,renjis2,salam tetamu,nak tukar baju potong kek lagi, nak gambar outdoor lagi. when is the time they perform their prayer???
I keep thinking on that issues. in future,i don't want to neglect my solat (i know,i'm not that good in keeping punctual for prayer time.but if we neglect solat semasa kita dalam sedar,memang akan rasa bersalah kan?) i want to avoid this on my big day.
and suddenly i found this video.
alhamdulillah..ALLAH has shown me the way. but the arguments will start when we are following adat. we have to respect the older one,especially parents. so,how could i explain this to my mom and dad?
nanti bila kita kata nak buat kenduri pukul 9-10 pagi di kata kita buang tebiat.
ouhh..biar mati anak jangan mati adat..last2 terus hangus solat. avoid this.
i have been searching for most wedding vendors in KL and Selangor.included several blogs those writing about their journey on preparing wedding preparation. i was feel like "wow"...am so blessed because they were very particular in giving the details about the vendors they had hire. i do feel like, wedding preparation is such as easy as ABC. just need to hire the wedding planner, and taraaaa! done! (no..not that easy bebeh..)
i wonder the lace and flowers are so beautiful to be looked on. how they are arranged in such nice places, how the dress is being designed.well-suited by the bridegroom and bride.. provided with lighting techniques. and wow, i love the smiles on those faces when they were on their solemnization, reception or whatever~ by technology of cameras of course. but i sure you would agree and nodding your head when you see the lovely pictures! oh ya, i would also like the tiara/crown that is placed on bride's head. very the fantastic.
but what the actual thing that i want to mention here with you is, although in the lane of preparing the wedding is full of blast and excitement, there was a tale that we shall learn that, not everything is as much as you like. you have to deal with many vendors, which is mean, you will deal over many people out there who have their own style, behavior, perception that sometimes goes beyond your expectation. if the expectation is all about the work (which you expect 5 stars,they done 10stars), and done fantastically, yeah you will happy for it. it such a worth investment. but what goes beyond your expectation are their unpredicted professionalism,attitudes and all the thingy, i bet you will be so disenchanted with them.
so, what is my advice upon my reviews to mydearself is... dont judge a book by its cover. do not expect too much. there are a lot of "sugar-coated" vendors who say they had done the perfect jobs but the truth,there were not! (maybe the slight things they even didn't)
bear in my mind-though they do not threat you nice-enough, just be nice with them. ALLAH will pay cash for those who are untrusworthy with their words and works.
insyaALLAH, marriage is everyone's dream. and we have to work on with it, not only the preparation, but live after the marriage. "sedangkan lidah lagikan tergigit,apatah lagi suami isteri"- i sure u had heard this malay proverb. hihihi
may all of us are following sunnah rasulullah.. tighting the bond between woman and man by nikah is encouraged by Nabi SAW. and we do have to prevent ourselves from Api Neraka. which is mean, no cruelties in your marriage and we do have to "jaga" the conjugal rights and happiness. be responsible on that. These are my advices to myself. (and pleasee myself, don't be tooo egoist).. that's all dear friend. may ALLAH bless! ;)
p/s: this entry DOES NOT indicate, i will get married soon!ahahha
firstly, i would like to wish all muslimeen and muslimaats - happy enjoying Ramadhan,where the month is filled with million of blesses from ALLAH.. wishing we could have a joy of happiness when doing worship to ALLAH..selawat dan salam buat junjungan baginda Rasulullah.. semoga ini bukan ramadhan yang terakhir buat kita..aminn..
berkenaan entri lepas yang saya kata, kenapa nak kumpul RM30,000 itu adalah kerana ingin memenuhi tuntutan hawa nafsu saya...muahahahaa
(eh, tadi bukan ke ucapan bukan main baik kat perenggan paling awal?)
okeh,jangan membazir...baik..
sebenarnya...
saya mahu kumpul duit kahwin...ngeheheheh....
tepat sekali teka-tekaan anda yang lepas.. hukhuk
tapi kenapa saya kena kumpul sekarang?
sebab RM30,000 tu ingat boleh kumpul dalam masa setahun kah??tidak, bukan??saje, mahu kumpul dalam masa 2 tahun ini (mampukaaahh aku?)
andainya kenduri kahwin itu boleh buat high tea--> dengan menghidangkan karipap inti sardin bersama secawan air teh, pasti sudah lama saya kata begini kepada mak;
"nah mak, rm$$, cukup tak tempah 1000 bijik karipap buat kenduri kahwin?"
sudah tentu, mereka yang bujang2 tak payah pening kepala fikir duit nak kahwin..dan pastu ramai juga yang "tambah cawangan"..hihi
tapi...tapi...tapi...
bukan setakat duit, ilmu kerumah-tanggaan [<----benarkah ejaan ini?] ilmu keibu-bapaan,ilmu bilik tidur (wahkakaka<---adults' matters bebeh)
ilmu pengurusan diri, ilmu psikologi, ilmu masak memasak, semua kena prepare.. bukan hanya nak gatal kahwin je..
some of you may saying like this;
"ala,yang nak kahwin tu lelaki,let them prepare all the duit belanja"
you all....
kalau saya kahwin dengan anak dato menteri paduka baginda negeri bawah payung takpelah, mahu suruh beliau sedia duit belanja semua sekali...hey hey hey...
saya orang kebanyakan. saudara mara banyak bebeh.. mak cakap buat kat rumah je..tapi rumah saya yang kecik..dengan kawasan kejiranan yang cukup kedekut ini bakal menyukarkan keadaan. hehehhe...baik buat kat dewan.. (berangan nak buat kat banquet hall)
