jatuh banyak kali pun insyaALLAH..skrin tak pecah. hihi..
dalam hati teringin nak beli smartphone.
but i know, it is not listed as necessary. i won't buy it.
semua orang cakap ya..best. macam2 aplikasi.
tapi ummi fikir jauh lagi dari tu.
ummi akan ada anak.. yang suatu hari nanti akan lebih tertarik dengan smartphone. especially bila ada talking tom yang boleh imitate apa yg kita cakap. kanak2 bukan main suka lagi. ummi takut umi akan bg smartphone kalau ummi dah tak reti nak buat apa kalau anak meragam. hati yang cepat cair ni perlu diajar bertegas.uhuuu
sebab untuk jangka masa pendek dan panjang melekakan anak..ya,smartphone/tab adalah jawapannya.
dengan ini ummi dan daddy takkan beli smartphone tanpa sebab yang kukuh.
"The expert stated that even the most advanced apps and gadgets cannot replace crayons, puzzles, books and stuffed animals and that, while developing an aptitude for technology is advantageous, it should not replace reading, board games and outdoor play." (source)
(source: How much exposure to technology can kids take?)
"Researchers have previously found that structured activities such as sport and organisations as well as unstructured play provides children with the opportunity to foster friendship, practice interpersonal skills, assume responsibility, test their risk perception, develop morally (turn taking, following rules, resolving conflict), exert self-discipline and experience leadership" (sumber seperti di atas)
Bak yang aku baca dalam parenting tidbit dalam warga prihatin: jangan jadikan anak kita seperti ayam jantan/tikus dek kerana gadget2 ini..
meh baca kat link warga prihatin (sila click)
i'm preparing myself to become a mother. and to be a parent, a guardian to my children. May ALLAH ease this tough journey for us and for u as well.insyaALLAH..
