Sunday, December 5, 2010
i will let my mom to watch this
since i am 23,and i have been watching how good it was when my friend getting married. sangat bahagia. sangat suka.. *blink2 eyes*
insyaALLAH..soon you will..
walau kecewa bercinta sebelum ini pon, tapi ALLAH kan tahu apa yang terbaik.jodoh akan ada..cuma lambat atau cepat aje (keluar tajuk)
so, here it goes. i would like to share what have i watched on youtube (posted by someone in FB)
i watched it because the title of video itself--DINOSAUR--
but at the end of the recording, i found something interesting about wedding!
yes, you know guys, wedding is my passion. because i love laces and ribbons. and yet, beneath of the laces and ribbons, it gives a thousand meaning of a sacred relationship. it holds two hearts in tight and that is exactly an everyone's dream.
but what i love most in this video,the ustaz shares the ideal time to held wedding reception.
(i could give u an example of my friend-ummi kalthum, she just had her solemnization in the morning, and kenduri right after they going back to home. no clothes changed. so simple,but so meaningful,kahwin jugak kan?)
i was smiling when i hear what's the point the ustaz wants to share.
ustaz: why not we held wedding reception at 9 am? don't disturb prayer time.
ok,let me tell you this. i've been thinking all these whiles how bride and groom could perform their solat? it will be a hectic day u know. A BIG DAY for them. I've been watching this situation (and the bride and groom sometimes just neglect prayer. Some of them. Not all of them)
Let say the majlis held on 12 noon. Brides have to make-up before the ceremony begins. gedebak gedebuk sanding,renjis2,salam tetamu,nak tukar baju potong kek lagi, nak gambar outdoor lagi. when is the time they perform their prayer???
I keep thinking on that issues. in future,i don't want to neglect my solat (i know,i'm not that good in keeping punctual for prayer time.but if we neglect solat semasa kita dalam sedar,memang akan rasa bersalah kan?) i want to avoid this on my big day.
and suddenly i found this video.
alhamdulillah..ALLAH has shown me the way. but the arguments will start when we are following adat. we have to respect the older one,especially parents. so,how could i explain this to my mom and dad?
nanti bila kita kata nak buat kenduri pukul 9-10 pagi di kata kita buang tebiat.
ouhh..biar mati anak jangan mati adat..last2 terus hangus solat. avoid this.
the best time to start the ceremony is on 9 AM!
wanna make a change? lets try!