Sunday, December 5, 2010

i will let my mom to watch this

assalamualaikum semua..

since i am 23,and i have been watching how good it was when my friend getting married. sangat bahagia. sangat suka.. *blink2 eyes*

insyaALLAH..soon you will..

walau kecewa bercinta sebelum ini pon, tapi ALLAH kan tahu apa yang terbaik.jodoh akan ada..cuma lambat atau cepat aje (keluar tajuk)

so, here it goes. i would like to share what have i watched on youtube (posted by someone in FB)

ACTUALLY,

i watched it because the title of video itself--DINOSAUR--

but at the end of the recording, i found something interesting about wedding!

yes, you know guys, wedding is my passion. because i love laces and ribbons. and yet, beneath of the laces and ribbons, it gives a thousand meaning of a sacred relationship. it holds two hearts in tight and that is exactly an everyone's dream.

but what i love most in this video,the ustaz shares the ideal time to held wedding reception.

(i could give u an example of my friend-ummi kalthum, she just had her solemnization in the morning, and kenduri right after they going back to home. no clothes changed. so simple,but so meaningful,kahwin jugak kan?)

i was smiling when i hear what's the point the ustaz wants to share.

ustaz: why not we held wedding reception at 9 am? don't disturb prayer time.


ok,let me tell you this. i've been thinking all these whiles how bride and groom could perform their solat? it will be a hectic day u know. A BIG DAY for them. I've been watching this situation (and the bride and groom sometimes just neglect prayer. Some of them. Not all of them)

Let say the majlis held on 12 noon. Brides have to make-up before the ceremony begins. gedebak gedebuk sanding,renjis2,salam tetamu,nak tukar baju potong kek lagi, nak gambar outdoor lagi. when is the time they perform their prayer???

I keep thinking on that issues. in future,i don't want to neglect my solat (i know,i'm not that good in keeping punctual for prayer time.but if we neglect solat semasa kita dalam sedar,memang akan rasa bersalah kan?) i want to avoid this on my big day.

and suddenly i found this video.

alhamdulillah..ALLAH has shown me the way. but the arguments will start when we are following adat. we have to respect the older one,especially parents. so,how could i explain this to my mom and dad?

nanti bila kita kata nak buat kenduri pukul 9-10 pagi di kata kita buang tebiat.

ouhh..biar mati anak jangan mati adat..last2 terus hangus solat. avoid this.

the best time to start the ceremony is on 9 AM!

wanna make a change? lets try!








3 comments:

haziQah said...

wah bariah..power nye ayat english awk..jeles kte hehe best2

yep kte pon slalu tpikr kalu wt kndri khwn ble nye msa nk solat..kalu cm solat zhor msuk awal bleh la sng cket nk solat then makeup2 kn..tp kalu lmbt..adakah akan burn huhu

n kte png tgk cte Ketika cinta bertasbih, dorg nye kndri wt pagi..maybe dlm kul 9am cmtu..n i think it is vert interesting idea *wink*
tp tu la...kalu kte nk mngubah ssuatu n especially adat..mmg agak sush la..so awk kna khwn dulu..then kte akan ikot tips2 awk heeee

Aanas said...

salam ummie,
memang kalo sanding tengahari, harus zohor miss.. mak andam mai jer udah kol 12.. takkan ler bila masuk waktu nak basuh mekap kan... akak dulu solat zohor lepas sanding, huhu, kol 4 lebey, tapi lom masuk asar lagi lerr..jap2 nengok jam, jap2 nengok jam.. takut habis waktu.. bila fikir2 balik, rasa nyesal.. nak redha manusia ke nak redha Allah??

dari~ummie said...

haziqah (^^,)
hishhh....power ke hapa..ntah apa2 adalah..tonggang terbalik..hihi

kan..itu la yg kita dok pk tu..eheh..in advance..wewewe..ketika cinta bertasbih??ala...x tgok lagi!!harus tgok,then boleh la suruh mak kita tgok..kikikiki..suruh buat pukul 9..eheh..

p/s:haziqah,jodoh tu kita x tahu..entah2 awk yg kahwin dulu..hihi..amin!!


kak ana: wslm kak ana,ala...cerita lama..hihi..nasib baik akak sempat solat. kalau burn,lg la akak rasa bersalah ya amat..hihi..itula,zaman dulu mana ada outdoor photo segala bagai..sempat la solat kak ana..ini,outdoor la,nak amik video la...waaa...makan masa tu kak...;)